It’s interesting when I reflect on things, how I feel that I stray far from my original intentions, yet in reality, I orbit around a thought or a thread of one, and come back to it time and time again. Such, I think, is the case with ‘Buddy Breathing,’ the blog and the concept.
When I think of what inspired ‘Buddy Breathing,’ it was for a large part, my friend Art Suke. Art is in the DNA of this place, and never far from thought when I hear of others who have battled ALS and lost valiantly, as he did. There was another battle lost last week. Another man cut down in his prime. Another celebration of a life. It still sucks as much now as it did then.
Still, there were specific ideas percolating in my mind last January when I posted my very first inspirations here, and some of them have flitted away into the recesses of my mind, while others are coming front and centre again. I consider how I have cast my nets in many different directions, and how God has brought me many good things.
Art is gone, and he won’t be back this side of heaven. He remains part of us. Like the other day when Bob and I were talking about a certain situation and I remembered Art saying, “Take the high road,” even though he’d never tell anyone he was taking that particular route. He just chose it. Spoke well of people. Thought well of people. Kept his expectations of people within limits. He taught me things. He questioned my thinking. He is still here, impacting, in so many ways.
I’ve been asked to speak at an upcoming Okanagan Express, about how my writing, poetry specifically, aids in the process of healing and wholeness in my life. So, immediately I began reflecting on how I walked through the final year of Art’s illness by doing just that… writing. Many poems were birthed on the way to or from Hospice, and even though writing was part of my life long before the complex experience of losing Art, it blossomed into something bigger, deeper, and more meaningful during the time of his illness and death. Publishing a collection of stories for Art was the seed for the first ‘Buddy Breathing’, another experience in giving and receiving words of hope. Landmarks, such as my poem, ‘Scotch Mints’ being published in UBCO Lake Journal, were because the depth of my journey somehow magnified my words into something more. Something that resonated with others.
And without getting into the details of what I’ll be presenting on March 17th at the Bohemian Bagel, I’ll be trying to summarize all that has happened in my life since I first discovered the power of creative expression. I’ll be trying to put into words the way that God has allowed, blessed, opened up, amplified, unearthed, worked out, this gift of poetry that continues to shape who I am. He continues to heal me and give me hope through this gift. And in thousands of other ways, God continues to give me exactly what I need. Hope for the moment. Hope enough. Breath by breath.
Thinking… (that’s nothing new!)
- Buddy Breathing 2010 in review (buddybreathing.wordpress.com)
This post touched me deeply.
Was deeply moved, as I said, thought about it all day, looked at his picture alot, don’t know why, something in his eyes like he’s talking to me. Thought you might like the pink, and she has an interesting blog;
Oh, wow… thank you for this link, Kenny… I feel like I just unearthed two beautiful jewels today… one in you, and another in titirangi storyteller. I’m listening. More please.
We first met through Faithwriters and enjoyed one another’s poetry. I am so glad that your writing has grown to the extent it is today- often coming out of very difficult times as in my own case initially. I do pray for this new opportunity to share on March 17th and will wait to hear how it goes. I was in touch with Jude recently, and I described your work in terms of “transparency” and “authenticity”- it always rings true.
Love, Anne Linington
Wonderful to hear from you… we have known each other for a long time, haven’t we? I agree that our brokenness is often the place of greatest growth and creative expression. I thank God that he has led me to understand that… and you as well.
Thank you for your comments and blessings to you today!